What not to do or talk about in front of children.

 

What not to do or talk about in front of children?.

Never talk about your problems in front of children because it drains their energy and makes them anxious and worried.

Never have heated arguments with your partner in front of children. Always try to discuss things in a loving way. Talk about any concerns you have somewhere else out of sight of children.

Three things are very beautiful in the world: children, stars and flowers.

Healthy upbringing will create a healthy society.

A healthy mind creates a healthy environment.

Healthy upbringing creates a healthy mind, and a healthy mind creates a healthy society. Educating mothers and fathers in how to raise children healthily is a great service to society and humanity.

A mother is the greatest treasure of her child.

For a healthy and fit society, children's mental health is needed. No matter how healthy we behave with our children, here we have created a small healthy society in our family, and it will gradually become widespread, and we will ultimately be in safety and peace because of the efforts of fathers and mothers to properly raise our children.

Never, ever treat children violently.

Because violence can produce violence, it is in no way in the interest of society or the mental health of children.

Even violent treatment of parents by each other is another way of promoting violence and can harm the child.

What not to discuss in front of kids?

Trash talk.

Are you always criticizing your child's teacher, your mother, or your ex-husband? What to do instead: Stop. You're modeling bad behavior for your kids. You may also say something mean about a person your kids care about -- and that can be deeply unsettling for them.

Talking Around the Kids: 6 Things to Avoid.

Parental disagreements cause the greatest psychological and emotional trauma to a child. Mothers and fathers should not share their disagreements with their children.

Even if parents have the biggest disagreements with each other, they should treat each other with love in front of the child. Parents' respect for each other contributes to the child's health.

What shouldn't you discuss when little ears could hear?

1. Fraught topics. Be careful talking about big issues -- like financial problems or a family crisis. Your kids

are listening. Kids are magnetically drawn toward arguments and emotional discussions, says Eileen

Kennedy-Moore, PhD, a psychologist in Princeton, N.J., and coauthor of Smart Parenting for Smart Kids:

Nurturing Your Child's True Potential. However, they may not really understand what's going on. Their

interpretations may be scarier than what's actually happening.

What to do instead: "If something big is going on in your household, trying to hide it from your kids

won't work," says Kennedy-Moore. "Give them the basic facts." The most important detail is how these

changes will affect your child.

2. Trash talk. Are you always criticizing your child's teacher, your mother, or your ex-husband?

What to do instead: Stop. You're modeling bad behavior for your kids. You may also say something

mean about a person your kids care about -- and that can be deeply unsettling for them.

3. Criticism of your kids. Do you tend to vent about the frustrations of parenthood on the phone? Be

careful. "It can be really hurtful if your kids overhear you criticizing them or talking about some mistake

they made," says Kennedy-Moore. "They're likely to feel ashamed and then angry."

What you should do instead: Don't get in the habit of complaining about your kids. "Be discreet about

your kids' indiscretions," says Kennedy-Moore. Try not to repeat them to others.

4. Complaining. Adults tend to complain a lot -- especially about their jobs. What's the problem? You're

modeling a bad attitude that your kids could apply to school -- or later in life when they have jobs.

What you should do instead: Talk about the positive aspects of your work. "If you worked on an

interesting project recently, make sure to mention that," says Kennedy-Moore.

5. Upsetting world events. "For kids, the world is a small place," says Kennedy-Moore. "They may

overhear you talking about the news and assume that burglars are going to be coming to their house, or

A message

from your

school

counselor

Mrs. Cook!

You have made it through the alarms, toothpaste mess in the

bathroom, carpool line and more. The beginning of the school

year can be a wild roller coaster ride. As we begin to fall into

our routines, and with the September buzz calming down be

sure you are taking the time to talk with your child about

school in ways that cultivate a positive school environment and

get kids excited about learning! Below are some helpful tips

taken from a useful article I found on psychology analyses , written by  samuel ku.

a tsunami may hit their town."

What you should do instead: You shouldn't shield your kid completely from world events. Just help

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Kind regards

Samuel

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