I hope no one would take it
personally. This post is not about the person mentioned. It is general information.
This post is not aimed at a specific person, but rather general
information. I hope no
one takes it personally.
5 things that make people
violent
1 Rape during adolescence or
childhood
2 Violent upbringing in the
family. Violence between parents.
3 Unhealthy and immature
environment
4 An environment where
religion comes first
5 Mental illness makes a person
violent and vengeful
Well, mental illness itself
comes from long-term violence, whether it was #sexual #violence
or physical violence such as.
Those who have been sexually
abused earlier in childhood can be aggressive at the same time they are shy and
do not dare to talk to people directly.
They always carry silly
things with them that prevent their energy from being released.
actually you have to be nice
to such people and always be kind to those who wear such things.
such people lack empathy lack
humanity also they are harm bearers,, they lack conscience.
How would you treat people
who carry trauma in their lives?
Find out as much as you can
about distress, so you can understand something about what to expect. Allow the
person to talk about what happened, even if they become upset. Don't insist
they need professional help – not everyone who experiences a traumatic event
needs therapy.
Trauma - helping family or
friends
Find out as much as you can
about distress, so you can understand something about what to expect.
Allow the person to talk
about what happened, even if they become upset.
Don’t insist they need
professional help – not everyone who experiences a traumatic event needs
therapy.
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Where to get help
It can be difficult to know
how to help someone you love and care for when they have gone through a
distressing or frightening event.
It’s natural to want to make
them feel better, but it’s important to accept they have been through a
distressing experience. There is nothing you can say or do to make their pain
or disappear straight away. That will happen with time, rest, and support.
It will help if you tell them
that you are sorry about what they have had to go through and that you are
there to help them in any way they need.
Offer support after a
traumatic or distressing event
It’s always good to ask the
person who has experienced a traumatic or distressing event what you can do to
support them. Suggestions for supporting a friend or family member include:
• Make time to be with them
and make it obvious that you are available. Sometimes, there is a tendency to
want them to move on before they are ready, because the traumatic experience
makes us feel upset. Try to avoid doing this. People who have had a traumatic
experience can feel very reassured by human contact and want someone to share
the state they are in, not try to make them feel better.
• Don’t take their feelings
to heart. They may be irritable, depressed, angry or frightened. Strong
feelings and emotional outbursts are common – don’t take it personally.
Recognise that their reactions come from their distress, and that their
reactions are normal and will subside in time.
• Reassure the person that
their reactions are normal.
• Offer practical support.
You could prepare meals, do housework or grocery shopping for them, or pick up
their children from school. This takes pressure off them, and allows them more
energy to cope with their feelings.
• Encourage them to take good
care of themselves, for example, by eating well, avoiding alcohol, drugs or
stimulants, take time to exercise to release tension, do nice things, and
attempt to maintain regular sleeping habits.
• You may need to let them
have time by themselves.
• Let them know you are there
for them without judging.
• Suggest that they maintain
regular daily routines and habits, which can also be helpful.
Talking about the trauma can
be important
Although people who have been
through a traumatic experience often get upset when they talk about it, talking
is very important. However, what is most important is that they have a sense of
control over their reactions. Some people do not want to open it up until they
are ready, while others can’t stop talking about their experience. Take the
lead from them – if they want to talk, be a listener; if they don’t want to go
over the event, they may want to talk about what it means, why it happened or
where to from here. Remember they may be ready to talk weeks or months later.
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